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Job Hunting Using the Web to Succeed

Auto Date Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

The Internet offers huge opportunities for a job seeker, but also presents several possible challenges. It also adds many complexities, and a lot more things to think about…and be mindful of.

Job hunting needs to be thought of as a personal, highly aimed marketing process where you are the product. Your resume is an ad. Your extended network is your source for information and opportunities.

So where does the net fit in? At AA-Careers, we recently posted a job on Craigslist and got more than 650 applications in a week. For one position. That’s increased competition for jobs.

Had a strong candidate gotten ahold of us before we placed the ad, they could have landed the position before having all that competition. How? By knowing an employee at our company who became aware of the job prior to posting. Everyone knew of the job for at least 11 days before it was posted. Who in your network might know of a job that’s coming available soon?

Be sure to check your cover letter and resume carefully! When we did an analysis of the 650 resumes, we found a large number of errors. 63% of the applicants were easily taken out with a fast triage process. How? The same way any hiring manager would. By rejecting resumes where the objective didn’t match our job description. By rejecting prospects whose cover letters gave us reasons not to employ them, like "I know I’m overqualified but I really need a job". By eliminating prospects whose documents that didn’t open properly. And by passing over prospects who didn’t trouble to spell check their cover letter and/or resume.

So the good news is that job boards give you a sense of what companies are hiring, and for what kinds of jobs. But once those positions are posted, the competition is intense. You can still try, if you have a well written resume, designed to appeal directly and clearly to the recruiter. And if you have practiced interviewing – so you don’t stumble at a critical point.

Another potential problem to be aware of is how easily you can be checked on on the internet. As we Googled several job hunters, we ran into some Facebook comments that were in questionable taste. Nothing crazy, but enough to rock our thoughts about who to choose.

AA-Careers provides a broad set of services for Bay Area job seekers, providing our clients a personal career consultant, a managed job hunting campaign, modern tools like a personal website, video, highly targeted resume, and much more. Let us know if we can help you.

Be careful out there, and good hunting!

Regained Hair & My Confidence!

Auto Date Monday, October 5th, 2009

My hair loss treatment journey began the day I started to notice my thinning hair and my bald spot becoming bigger. I would spend hours and hours looking for ways to comb my hair a particular manner to cover my hair loss. I noticed myself wearing more hats on the weekends as I went out with my wife, acquaintances or family. Walking in to work every morning was a painful experience without my hat on. Your thoughts changes when you are experiencing hair loss. It is so true that you never know what you have until you lose it. That can be true about your hair loss.

As I looked in the mirror I started to treasure every one of the hair strands I had left. It was as if with each string of hair I lost, so was a small percent of my confidence gone as well. A acquaintance of mine had been having the same problem as me. Yet recently he appeared so much more relaxed and I noticed that it was as if his hair was growing back. I didn’t wanted to bring it up but after a while I decided to ask. It was then that he recommended to me Advanced Hair Studio. With just a few visits my friend Jimmy had not only regained his hair, but his self-confidence as well. After seeing what Josh has accomplished from Advanced Hair, I decided to pay them a visit.

I was a little cynical at first. Effects were obvious within a few weeks. Not only on my scalp, but in my behavior. I started to lose the hats on the weekends and I quickly began to feel better about myself. My wife has also observed a change in my day to day behaviour as well. It is amazing how just a few visits to the Advanced Hair Studio had begun to change my life as a whole. I always felt as if the first thing people observed about me was my bald spot. Now, I am not scared to look people in the eyes again as I have my full set of self esteem back.

Advance Hair Studio has not only given me back my hair, but a big chunk of my life as well. If you are experiencing hair loss I highly recommend them as it has done so much for me in just a few months of treatments. Don’t let baldness take your self-assurance away.

Date Talk: Great Expectations Introduces Beautiful Couples

Auto Date Friday, July 3rd, 2009

Most call me a uniter not a divider, for the obvious reason that playing cupid is my role in the universe. I highly suggest singles try joining Great Expectations. No escaping it, serendipity strikes without notice. Expert matchmakers, like this
Milwaukee dating service (one of the best), meet and get to know their members individually. They build effective dates among shared friends, and that’s my method as well. Matchmaking is a hidden role with powerful payoffs by impacting relationships for thousands of happy couples.

I have offered companionship expertise in my facebook group and for as long as I can remember. This article isn’t the usual tips. Everyone remembers this stuff. Take an interest in conversational tone, be cool, try not to be self-obsorbed, be honest and (an often-overlooked one) steer clear of grading qualifications on a rubric. Relate to your date in the moment! Invite spontanaity in any situation. Obviously, do not make a mess trying to portray that you’re someone other than what you are. Suppose the date gets deep, then you’ll be in an awkard place. My number one dating tip: I’ve always recommended Great Expectations Milwaukee. It’s no secret that matchmaking is something I fine-tuned every day for as long as I remember. Couples I matched from friends and family helped establish my title. Happy couples are everywhere.

There’s Leticia and Daniel now toting about their gaggle of kiddos. Take a stab at who pegged the couple together at the Kentucky dreby in college, and the success can’t be denied. Gregory and Lindsay also fell for eachother at first sight after I set them up on a blind date last year. Let’s not forget my sister Angela and her soul mate. It’s no secret this adorable pair get hitched in New York City next August. These two love birds built their love using Great Expectations, from my recommendation.

So I’ve been right on with these arrows, and very efficient as well! Tho I also regret it a little, as I focus on the art of assisting single friends to understand how to find a relationship, I paid little attention to my own dating situation. What catastrophy lurks when the matchmaker requires a matchmaker? I’d want to meet exclusive Greatest Expectations Milwaukee singles, ’cause knowing you’re highly knowledgable with something one can be picky. Perhaps similar thinking has kept me from really getting serious about dating. Of all people, I should realize that you can’t live life without companionship. So that’s where I’m at, listening to my own tips by quality singles.

Irene Hetrick

Just Call Me Cupid

Is Being Bald the Recent Most Recent Fad?

Auto Date Thursday, June 4th, 2009

Men have consistently been self sensitive about going bald, but nevertheless, these days being bald is becoming a fashion craze. Plentiful of today’s male celebrities can be found sporting bald heads. One may find many of the trendiest younger stars with bald heads, by choice. There are additionally various elder celebrities that are not hiding up the truth that they are going bald. All these looks are excellent for men, that do not need to worry about becoming bald. The additional wonderful advice for men that are losing their hair, is that there are lots of advanced hair solutions, then ever before.

If one need encouragement that being bald is appealing just look at Vin Diesel, Howie Mandel, Bruce Willis or Andre Agassi. All the above men are some of the most fashionable men in the US, & they are all bald. Whether bald by choice or by nature, baldness will probably make people look exceedingly famed & fashionable. When men are bald & bold, they are incredibly sexy. Just like any fashion, being bald is all about attitude. When people are bald you need to own a positive attitude, then you will have no issue attracting girls.

If you are going bald, but you are not yet confident with your latest feature, there are numerous therapies available. Several hair loss treatments, aid you grow back your own natural hair. When you grow back your own hair, it can look & feel effectively natural. Growing back one’s own hair will aid you look and feel younger, & will often aid you feel even more confidant. Growing back one’s own hair is a great opportunity, because you can continue to look like yourself, simply younger.

For the reason that growing your own hair again is not an option, there are additionally various advanced hair therapies that will aid you get a full head of hair back. No matter what kind of baldness issues you are experiencing, rest assured that there is a hair loss therapy that can work for you. Some of the advanced hair therapies are more involved, and it will take a longer period before you have a full head of hair. More men worry, about their hair looking natural after they use all these advanced hair therapies. Be sure to communicate to a doctor or the person doing the hair remedies, to make sure you absolutely understand the results.

The most crucial thing about hair loss, is that you feel natural and comfortable. If you feel attractive bald, do not worry about obtaining hair loss remedies. If you are self conscious about your thinning hair, you are not alone. If you do your comparison, & find the very best hair loss treatment for you, you’re sure to feel great with your hair. Get expert advice in hair loss treatments from Advanced Hair Studio.

Metro Girl: It’s All Great Thanks to Better than Good Expectations

Auto Date Saturday, May 30th, 2009

For one, You couldn’t describe me as exactly comfortable as an “independent” (aka: naturally single) person and not be lying. But, I’m not uncomfortable with the reality of life, either. I merely suggest it on the blogosphere as an appetizing little tidbit setting up the story I am prepared to explain in grand style.

Last Monday I was talking to Stacey, thinking of joining Dallas Personals site. Now, I write to you as a delightfully single member of the matchmaking service. Totally, and I almost don’t believe it myself! It’s full of fun, attractive people! If you’ve been paying attention, perhaps you’re thinkin’, “Stop blabbering and tell me about it already.”

Well, I looked at this Great Expectations Dating site and felt encouraged. They’re for the serious singles who know dating should mean something.

‘Cause I’d never been interested in what a lot of singles have named “The Dating Experience.” I heard it all the time. Each night readers pester, “Are you two serious yet?” and “Oh I know just the guy for you!”

“That’s rubbish,” I reply, smiling ear to ear. “Have you seen what’s out there?”

“Not true,” they level with me. “That’s just an excuse for your cynicism.”

Thankfully, that’s my partner in crime (on a good day) (hehe) Sandy McCarthy. She pours common sense to my brain 99% of the time. Caring souls never fail . Can’t argue with that, and I thank her for it.

Back to the point of this essay. As I browsed from more than three hundred combinations of outfits for my first singles event with Great Expectations, something occurred to me that was quite real. For years, I hadn’t held the greatest of figurative great expectations for dating and myself in the serendipitous path of this world. It’s good to be single, even more so if you use the freedom to date. Holding great expectations works terrifically for those who believe.

~Christy Rodriguez

All About Essential Oils and Aromatherapy

Auto Date Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

Aromatherapy is a fashionable remedy to improve one’s mental and physical well-being. Aromatherapy has been in use for centuries to improve health. 90 essential oils have been named and are in use today.Aromatherapy isn’t simply about essential oils though - you can also include under the phrase aromatherapy: milk powders, sea salts, sugars (an exfoliant), clays and muds, cold pressed vegetable oils etc.

Please elaborate, what are the health benefits? It seems incredible that simply from smelling a substance or placing it on the surface of my skin, I can improve my well-being. Here’s the science bit : The fragrance of the natural essential oil arouses the brain to trigger off a reaction, and when inhaled in directly to the lungs, the natural elements can provide a therapeutic boost. As essential oils are so strong and concentrated, they never should be applied to skin in their fully concentrated form. To put essential oils to the skin, they are normally diluted into a carrier like a cold pressed vegetable oil, also known as a carrier oil. Common carrier oils include apricot kernel oil, grapeseed oil, and sweet almond oil.

So where can I get such aromatherapy wares, and what should I look out for? A basic rule is to be distrustful of products that do not name their ingredients and also those that do not apply pure essential oils. Searching online, there’s an abundance of aromatherapy retailers, and you can buy all kinds of things…..from Jasmine Shampoos to bath crystals.

I encourage you to learn more regarding aromatherapy as it is a wonderful aid to ones health, and it can be applied at home, and doesn’t come with any great monetary or time costs.

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Auto Date Tuesday, February 17th, 2009

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Diet Motivation Secrets

Auto Date Saturday, May 24th, 2008

People are always looking for a way to lose weight without the
pain and suffering of actually going on a diet and exercising.
Well, unfortunately there is no such way to lose weight. But a
person can achieve diet motivation.

Diet motivation is the desire and drive to eat smaller portions
of healthier foods and exercise more frequently. While it is not
an easy thing to achieve, it can be done with some tips and
advice on dieting and motivational skills.

To get started on your diet motivation, you must first decide
what your desired weight loss should be. This is where it gets
tricky. The goal must be realistic and possible to obtain. If we
set our weight loss goal at 50 pounds, yes it is a great plan,
but not realistic for most of us.

If the goals are set too high, they are useless to our cause. If
they can’t be met then they are detrimental to our diet
motivation. So, the goals that we set must be both, realistic
and possible to reach. This goes for our exercise goals as well.

Don’t set a goal for working out two hours every day. That would
be great to be able to do that, however, it is really unlikely
that the average person can do that and commit to it every day.
As you reach your goals, you can then raise your standards and
climb up as you go.

The foods that you eat will more than likely have to be altered
as well. The key to success with any weight loss program is that
you should expend more energy than your caloric intake. It is
really that simple.

You do not have to deny yourself of everything that you enjoy
eating. Just downsize the portions and eat these items in
moderation. As a matter of fact, studies show that the people
who do deprive themselves of their favorite foods, end up
binging on those foods and going off their diets all together
after time.

Again, you can have pretty much anything you want in the food
group, just use common sense and eat less and exercise more to
burn off any extra that you have eaten.

Diet motivation will become a habit in the same way that
overeating becomes a habit. Your body will get used to the
workouts and the healthy eating, and it will be come natural
after time.

Think of the positives of obtaining diet motivation. You will
feel better, you will look better and you will have more self
discipline and will power. All those things combined are going
to make a better you.

Focusing on Your Purpose

Auto Date Saturday, May 3rd, 2008

Copyright 2005 Daniel N Brown

So many people are tormented by fear and don’t realize how
negative thinking affects them. They build a prison for
themselves with suggestions of limitation, incapacity, and
unworthiness. They don’t think of succeeding, but of how they
will fail.

It’s been said that a person does not get want they want, but
what they picture. It’s those dominate thoughts that are being
attracted to you, not your greatest dreams. So, the way to
attract the things you desire is to hold a mental picture of
what you want as long as possible, and as often as possible.
Feel that you already have what you desire with certainty and
you will see it become manifested in your life.

It’s a simple concept, and it’s true. It’s just not easy. It’s
not easy because we are bombarded daily with all kinds of
negative thoughts, and then we are forced to decide what to do
with them after they’ve entered our minds.

There is just no way a person can enjoy life to its full with a
head full of negative thoughts. The will of God is abundance,
prosperity, blessings, peace, joy, and righteousness. Thoughts
of fear, worry, dread, and poverty are in direct opposite to
God’s plan. In fact, they are the devil’s plan.

2 Corinthians 4:4 says, Satan has become the god of this world,
and it’s his will to completely destroy us. But, God has put
limits on the devil. He cannot cross the blood line. Therefore,
the main way he disrupts people’s lives is by planting
suggestive thoughts in their heads, causing them all kinds of
grief.

A person cannot change what they do not acknowledge. So, if you
can acknowledge that if you live life passively, the devil will
destroy you.

He is not just going to sit by and watch as you become
outrageously blessed. The reason is because he hates God. And,
since he can not hinder God in any way, the best he can do is
hinder God’s most beloved possession - you!

As Christians, we are just passing through and we must be like
Jesus, completely focused on our mission. And, that mission is
pursuing the purpose God put in each of us. Too many Christians
are confused because they do not have a clue as to why they are
here.

You must absolutely know where you are headed in life and have a
fixed goal in view before you’ll ever attain what you’re after.

You must be definite on what it is that you desire and not
consistently changing your mind according to your moods on any
given day. James 1:6-8 says, “Let him ask in faith with no
doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and
tossed by the wind. Let not that man suppose that he will
receive anything from the Lord, for he is a double-minded man,
and unstable in all his ways.”

Many people go through the lip-service act of saying their
prayers without the slightest belief that those prayers will be
answered. Consequently, they are not answered, and the same
people will scratch their head and wonder why God is not
answering their prayers.

Jesus said, “According to your faith, let it be done unto you”
(Matt 9:29). How can anything positive “be done unto you” if you
are not exercising your faith in what you desire?

If you’re frustrated and tired of going around the same mountain
of problems day after day, then ask yourself some serious
questions:

1) “Do I know God’s will for my life, or do I not have a clue
what He’s created me for?”

2) “Do I have direction, or am I just wandering around
aimlessly?”

3) “Do I know exactly what I want and how I’m going to get
there, or do I just wait and see what’s going to happen?”

4) “Do I have goals, and if so, are they written down?”

5) “Am I confessing what God’s Word says about me daily, or do I
even know any of God’s Word?”

You are created with a purpose! You may say, “I know, but I
don’t know what my purpose is.” If that’s what you are saying,
the devil has successfully faked you out.

God has a purpose for each person and I believe your purpose is
in your interests! You will never be ultimately successful doing
something you do not enjoy.

Is your work “just a job,” or do you truly enjoy it?
Ecclesiastes 2:24 says, “Nothing is better for a man than that
he should eat and drink, and that his soul should enjoy good in
his labor.”

So, ask yourself what it is that you like to do? Once you
discover it, then do it with all your might. Ecclesiastes 9:10
says, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your
might.”

It is vital that you know God’s will for your life. Things that
are not God’s will for you get frustrating. They don’t manifest
positive results because they are not part of God’s plan. In
those cases you must be honest with yourself and stop pursuing
those things.

But, if you know with all your heart that God has spoken
something to you, then you must pursue it with everything you’ve
got.

Now, you will only be able to pursue it with everything you’ve
got by first controlling and directing your thoughts.

It’s a decision you make concerning what you think about. So
whether you think success, or failure, that’s what you will
eventually reap. Without directed thought aimed at your purpose,
and goals in writing, you are like the proverbial “ship without
a rudder,” wandering everywhere while going nowhere (remember
James 1:6-8).

Because our thoughts are vibrating energy, we create what we
want by focusing our thoughts on those things. So, a big mistake
is trying to figure out how you are going to do something before
you do it. Start by believing you can do it and the “how-to”
will follow, for strong belief triggers the mind to figuring the
ways and the means.

Now, faith without works is dead (James 2:20). You’re simply not
committed until you take action. Think positive thoughts, come
up with ideas, seek advice from Godly people who are on the same
page, spend time with God and seek His council.

Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed
possible. This power becomes available to you just as soon as
you change your beliefs by eliminating thoughts of limitation,
incapacity, and unworthiness. Remember, you do not get want you
want, but what you picture.

Self Improvement Motivation: Design Your Destiny With Positive Habits

Auto Date Monday, April 28th, 2008

Every (and I do mean EVERY) human potential success coach from
the most famous to the little known conclude, that habits hold the
key to success or failure.

According to the dictionary, a habit is an acquired pattern of
behavior that has become almost involuntary as a result of frequent
repetition.

Our habits dictate the quality of life we experience. If you
procrastinate, talk negatively to yourself and allow fear to rule,
you are going to have a very stressful life overflowing with anxiety
and sadness. I know, because that is where I’ve come from.

The key to creating lasting positive results in any area of your life,
must first start with changing the way you think before changing the
way you act.

Here are the top three bad habits that effect most of us
at some time in our lives.

1. Fear (Yes fear is a habit!)

It is said F.E.A.R stands for “False Evidence Appearing Real” and
after a lifetime of confronting just about every fear I can think
of, fear of success, fear of failure, fear of letting me be me…

I can tell you for certain that living in fear is the worst habit
of them all. It is the root of all other bad habits like
smoking, overeating, addictions etc. (Fear is the enemy of
inspiration and motivation.)

No matter what changes you want to make in your life you are
going to feel some degree of fear. But I can tell you from
experience that the secret is to feel the fear and take action anyway.
Action defeats fear!

2. Negative self-talk

I am also guilty of this self-inflicted punishment as well.
I have come to discover that humans are in fact self
fulfilling prophecies and that our thoughts do matter.

The problem is that most of us don’t consciously use negative
self talk, it ends up becoming more like a mantra or a label we
brand ourselves with.

For Example:

I used to call my self a lot of things, a procrastinator, fat,
shy and I would follow it up whenever someone challenged me
with a reinforcing, “That’s just the way I am.”

Although I thought I was just poking fun at myself, I realize
after years of unconscious repetition that negative self-talk
was one of the main things holding me back from following my
heart and creating the life of my dreams.

3. Procrastination

Up until a few months ago you could look this word up in the
dictionary and see my picture. I would beat myself up night
after night for not following through with a phone call or an
article idea. I would wait until the last minute to do anything,
then become so stressed out that I wasn’t much fun to be around.

Overcoming the negative habit of procrastination can truly
change your life. When you learn to take action as soon as the
mood strikes and stop when the feeling is gone, you will find after
just a few weeks of inspired action that you have begun to create
something of value. Practice anything with conscious awareness and
specific intent for 21 days and you will amaze yourself. I promise!

It is worth taking the steps to replace the habits that have been
holding you back from living a richer more fulfilling life. If I can
do it, anyone can.

My 6th grade teacher dragged me into the hall by my hair, looked me
in the eye, pounded his finger in my chest and told me I was stupid
and would never amount to anything…

…See Mr. McCarthy I’m not stupid.

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